Introducing – The Prince And The Magician – An NLP Story

If you want a great NLP story, this is one of my all time favorites. And in some ways it’s not what you would expect an NLP story to be but, then again that’s really the essence of NLP, isn’t it? – It’s not what you would expect.

Anyway, it’s a great NLP story, and I found it in my personal favorite NLP book that I recommend very highly. If you want to read a truly great NLP book, then get this one.

Now, unfortunately, there are two books by the same name so make sure it’s this one you get.

Introducing NLP: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People


The Prince And The Magician

Once upon a time there was a young prince who believed in all things but three.

He did not believe in princesses, he did not believe in islands, he did not believe in God.

His father, the king, told him that such things did not exist. As there were no princesses or islands in his father’s domains and no sign of God, the young prince believed his father.

But then, one day, the prince ran away from his palace. He came to the next land.

There, to his astonishment, from every coast he saw islands, and on the islands, strange and troubling creatures whom he dared not name.

As he was searching for a boat, a man in full evening dress approached him along the shore.

‘Are those real islands?’ asked the young prince.
‘Of course they are real islands,’ said the man in evening dress.
‘And those strange and troubling creatures?’
‘They are all genuine and authentic princesses.’
‘Then God also must exist!’ cried the prince.
‘I am God,’ replied the man in full evening dress, with a bow.
The young prince returned home as quickly as he could.


‘So you are back,’ said his father, the king.
‘I have seen islands, I have seen princesses, I have seen God,’ said the prince reproachfully.
The king was unmoved.
‘Neither real islands, nor real princesses, nor a real God, exist.’
‘I saw them!’
‘Tell me how God was dressed.’
‘God was in full evening dress.’
‘Were the sleeves of his coat rolled back?’
The prince remembered that they had been. The king smiled.
‘That is the uniform of a magician. you have been deceived.’

At this, the prince returned to the next land and went to the same shore, where once again he came upon the man in full evening dress.

‘My father, the king, has told me who you are,’ said the young prince indignantly. ‘You deceived me last time, but not again. Now I know that those are not real islands and real princesses because you are a magician.’
The man on the shore smiled.
‘It is you who are deceived, my boy. In your father’s kingdom, there are many islands and many princesses. But you are under your father’s spell, so you cannot see them.’


The prince returned pensively home. When he saw his father, he looked him in the eyes.

‘Father, is it true that you are not a real king, but only a magician?’
The king smiled and rolled back his sleeves.
‘Yes my son, I am only a magician.’
‘Then the man on the shore was God.’
‘The man on the shore was another magician.’
‘I must know the real truth, the truth beyond magic.’
‘There is no truth beyond magic,’ said the king.
The prince was full of sadness.
He said, ‘I will kill myself.’

The king by magic caused death to appear. Death stood in the door and beckoned to the prince. The prince shuddered. He remembered the beautiful but unreal islands and the unreal by beautiful princesses.

‘Very well,’ he said. ‘I can bear it.’
‘You see, my son,’ said the king, ‘you too now begin to be a magician.’

Taken from “Introducing NLP” by Joseph O’Connor and John Seymour, originally from The Magus © John Fowles, published by Jonathan Cape, 1977

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Hi I’m Bob Clarke, writer of most of these blog posts. I’m also the Co-Creator, with my wife Ronda, of the Most Comprehensive NLP Training and Coaching Program Online. Our purpose is to bring NLP to you, saving you time, travel and money.